5. PASSIVE Offering no opposition ; submissive . This communicates a message of inferiority Here the person acts like a doormat, downplaying their own needs and willing to fit in with the wishes of others in order to keep the peace at any price. It may be accompanied by general passivity, nervousness and a lack of eye contact.
6. AGGRESSIVE Forceful and offensive. Attack without provocation . This always communicates an impression of superiority and disrespect. This may occur where a person is trying to impose their views inappropriately on others, and it may be accompanied by threatening language and an angry, glaring expression.
7. MANIPULATIVE This typically occurs where a person seeks to ingratiate themself with another through flattery and other forms of deceit. It may be accompanied by cloying over-attention and a simpering, smarmy voice June 7, 2009 Advesh Consultancy Services
8. ASSERTIVENESS State clearly and forthright . Is the ability to express yourself and your rights in an open, non-confrontational way.
9. The key to assertiveness is clear, open and honest discussion that does not blame, ridicule or put other people down .
34. June 7, 2009 Advesh Consultancy Services NONASSERTIVE ASSERTIVE AGGRESSIVE Slumped Shoulders forward Shifting often Chin down Sitting: LEGS ENTWINED Erect and relaxed Shoulders straight Few shifts Head straight Sitting: LEGS TOGETHER/CROSSED Erect, tense, rigid Shoulders back Jerky shifts Chin up Sitting: HEELS ON DESK,HANDS BEHIND HEAD
47. BROKEN RECORD A SKILL THAT BY CALM REPETITION- SAYING WHAT YOU WANT OVER AND OVER AGAIN- TEACHES PERSISTENCE WITHOUT YOU HAVING TO REHEARSE ARGUMENTS OR ANGRY FEELINGS.
48. WORKABLE COMPROMISE WHENEVER YOU FEEL THAT YOUR SELF RESPECT IS NOT IN QUESTION, OFFER A WORKABLE COMPROMISE TO THE OTHER PERSON.
59. You have to send your monthly sales report and you were waiting for some information from Accounts for you to complete. There is delay in getting the information and the person is attending to some other unimportant work