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Digital MindsetKnow Me Like Me Follow Me Thomas Power Chairman Ecademy thomas.power@ecademy.com Twitter @thomaspower
The Internet is Open, Random and Supportive (ORS) - SocialCorporations are Closed, Selective and Controlling (CSC) - Transactional
ORS requires A Digital Mindset
So what colour are you?
Sir Timothy John "Tim" Berners-Lee-  credited with creating the world-wide web in 1989. “The ultimate goal of the Web is to support and improve our existence in the world… we develop trust across the miles and trust around the corner”
The FaceBook Generation Have Gone Social
“Social means - ask my friends” TJ – aged 13 – 300 in network  Ross – aged 16  600 in network  Hannah – aged 18 1500 in network
Show me the money CEOs want transactions
Transactions go Social thusCorporations must go Social Social …media –   sharing knowledge Social …Networking –   Sharing conversations
CEOs are not (yet) SocialCEOs rarely tweetCEOs rarely blogCEOs rarely have an online profileCEOs rarely update statusCEOs rarely indicate locationCEOs rarely have a following
Why CEOs should Go SocialCEO has something valuable and distinctive to sayCEO is prepared to debate complex and controversial issuesThere is an audience who will over time tune into the CEOs messageNothing’s going to happen until the CEO leadsFollowers won’t believe CEOs who outsource Social
“I’d like my life back”
Steve Jobs – a Leader who created a Following
A Following takes time
Barak Obama believed in…
And he created a 4m following
What did they believe in? The Big Society
David Cameron on Twitter This unofficial Twitter is now shutting down, at the reasonable & very polite request of Tory HQ. Please follow @conservatives for updates.
This world is about people first and transactions second Facebook traffic has overtaken Google in the USA because there is more engagement
“Followers believe in dreams”
Every individual and Corporation requires a Digital Mindset
Social attracts Transactionswhat’s your Social Strategy?
Trends affect Tactics Social – FB, Twitter, Youtube, DailyBooth, Paperli Real Time –Twitter, BBM, Seesmic, Tweetdeck, Buzzfeed, Friendfeed Location – FourSquare, Gowalla, Loopt, Tumblr Urban – Apps mainly from City entrepreneurs Mobile – Friends, Android, iPhone, Cloud Instant Deals – Groupon, Yipit, Totsy  Transaction Sharing - Blippy, Swipely
Patterns affect Plans Social and Instant Open Random Supportive Notice and Share (M6S, Paperli, Flipboard, Tumblr) Learn by watch and try Reputation Led (Klout, PeerIndex, Venyo) Facebook Connect and Twitter Login highly significant (Huffington Post) Carry and share friends – Facebook, Twitter, Gmail Vertical sites growing i.e. travel airbnb, hipmunk, topguest Web of Pages becoming a Web of Streams (intelligent filtering readily available)
Every individual, institution and corporation needs a Social Strategy. Who’s going to teach them?YOU
Digital MindsetKnow Me Like Me Follow Me Thomas Power Chairman Ecademy thomas.power@ecademy.com Twitter @thomaspower

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Digitalmindset

  • 1. Digital MindsetKnow Me Like Me Follow Me Thomas Power Chairman Ecademy thomas.power@ecademy.com Twitter @thomaspower
  • 2. The Internet is Open, Random and Supportive (ORS) - SocialCorporations are Closed, Selective and Controlling (CSC) - Transactional
  • 3. ORS requires A Digital Mindset
  • 4. So what colour are you?
  • 5. Sir Timothy John "Tim" Berners-Lee- credited with creating the world-wide web in 1989. “The ultimate goal of the Web is to support and improve our existence in the world… we develop trust across the miles and trust around the corner”
  • 6. The FaceBook Generation Have Gone Social
  • 7. “Social means - ask my friends” TJ – aged 13 – 300 in network Ross – aged 16 600 in network Hannah – aged 18 1500 in network
  • 8. Show me the money CEOs want transactions
  • 9. Transactions go Social thusCorporations must go Social Social …media – sharing knowledge Social …Networking – Sharing conversations
  • 10. CEOs are not (yet) SocialCEOs rarely tweetCEOs rarely blogCEOs rarely have an online profileCEOs rarely update statusCEOs rarely indicate locationCEOs rarely have a following
  • 11. Why CEOs should Go SocialCEO has something valuable and distinctive to sayCEO is prepared to debate complex and controversial issuesThere is an audience who will over time tune into the CEOs messageNothing’s going to happen until the CEO leadsFollowers won’t believe CEOs who outsource Social
  • 12. “I’d like my life back”
  • 13. Steve Jobs – a Leader who created a Following
  • 16. And he created a 4m following
  • 17. What did they believe in? The Big Society
  • 18. David Cameron on Twitter This unofficial Twitter is now shutting down, at the reasonable & very polite request of Tory HQ. Please follow @conservatives for updates.
  • 19. This world is about people first and transactions second Facebook traffic has overtaken Google in the USA because there is more engagement
  • 21. Every individual and Corporation requires a Digital Mindset
  • 22. Social attracts Transactionswhat’s your Social Strategy?
  • 23. Trends affect Tactics Social – FB, Twitter, Youtube, DailyBooth, Paperli Real Time –Twitter, BBM, Seesmic, Tweetdeck, Buzzfeed, Friendfeed Location – FourSquare, Gowalla, Loopt, Tumblr Urban – Apps mainly from City entrepreneurs Mobile – Friends, Android, iPhone, Cloud Instant Deals – Groupon, Yipit, Totsy Transaction Sharing - Blippy, Swipely
  • 24. Patterns affect Plans Social and Instant Open Random Supportive Notice and Share (M6S, Paperli, Flipboard, Tumblr) Learn by watch and try Reputation Led (Klout, PeerIndex, Venyo) Facebook Connect and Twitter Login highly significant (Huffington Post) Carry and share friends – Facebook, Twitter, Gmail Vertical sites growing i.e. travel airbnb, hipmunk, topguest Web of Pages becoming a Web of Streams (intelligent filtering readily available)
  • 25. Every individual, institution and corporation needs a Social Strategy. Who’s going to teach them?YOU
  • 26. Digital MindsetKnow Me Like Me Follow Me Thomas Power Chairman Ecademy thomas.power@ecademy.com Twitter @thomaspower

Hinweis der Redaktion

  1. AND REALISE THAT THESE ARE HUMANITY NETWORKSThe shift is an emotional oneThese are humanity networks and a chance for humanity to be what it was meant to be
  2. AND REALISE THAT THESE ARE HUMANITY NETWORKSThe shift is an emotional oneThese are humanity networks and a chance for humanity to be what it was meant to be