2. Tips To Deal With Adolescent Behavior
• Dealing with teenagers is not rocket science.
• You can have a healthy relationship with
your teenager.
• You have to be patient .
• You have to put in the effort to understand
and work with the adolescents.
3. # Create A Trusting Relationship
• Trust is important for any
relationship.
4. # Create A Trusting Relationship
• If you want your teenager to listen
to you, you should earn their trust.
5. # Create A Trusting Relationship
• Keep an open relationship, you share
things with them.
6. # Create A Trusting Relationship
• when your teen realizes that you trust
him/her , he/she is more likely to open
up to you about his/her life.
7. # Empathize
• No matter how unreasonable your
teen’s behavior may seem, try to
imagine how they are feeling.
8. # Empathize
• Put yourself in their shoes and
understand their perspective.
9. # Empathize
• When you reflect their feelings, they
feel acknowledged and are willing to
share their feelings, ideas, and
opinions freely.
10. # Respect Them as human being
• Do you want your teen to
respect you?
• Teach them about it by
respecting them.
11. # Respect Them as human being
• Fear or intimidation cannot
earn you your teen’s respect.
12. # Respect Them as human being
• Respect their personality, ideas,
opinions, and emotions.
13. # Respect Them as human being
• Do not belittle them in front of
their friends or even in private.
14. # Respect Them as human being
• Most importantly, do not
trivialize or criticize their ideas
or opinions as that can make
them insecure as adults.
15. # Respect Them as human being
• When you treat your children
with respect, they will respond
with the same respect towards
you.
16. # Offer them Help
• It is important to let them
know that you are willing to
help them should they need
any.
17. # Offer them Help
• Some teens may feel the need
to do everything on their own
and consider seeking help as a
sign of inadequacy.
18. # Offer them Help
• Help your kids understand that
not everyone can do everything,
and it is okay to ask for help
sometimes.
19. # Offer them Help
• You could, alternatively, seek
their help in small matters to
make them feel involved. When
they see you seeking help, they
will do so from you, too.
20. #Show Them You Care
• Your teenager may hate you or
at least, say so. That may not
necessarily be true.
21. #Show Them You Care
• They may see your discipline
and strictness as hatred
towards them and believe that
you only want to make life
difficult for them.
22. #Show Them You Care
• You can prevent your teenager
from developing negative
feelings towards you by showing
that you care.
23. #Show Them You Care
• Tell them how much you love
them and do little things to
make them happy.
24. # Talk & talk before they walk
• Remember, you were a teenager
once.
• Behavioral changes are common
in teenagers.
25. # Talk & talk before they walk
• Whether you have a teenage boy
or girl, know what is normal.
• Know what can help you deal
and interact with them.
• Build a cooperative relationship
that benefits both of you.
26. # Talk & talk before they walk
If you have some other ideas or way
you deal with behavior problems in
your teen-
Tell me about it .
Please share , so that other parents
may be benefited.
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