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Horace Mann School
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
Seattle Girls’ School
Facilitating Courageous Conversations
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
About Seattle Girls’ School
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Agenda
 Safe Versus Brave
 Facilitation What If’s
 Questions and Answers
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Engaging in Courageous
Conversations
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Safety Versus Comfort
Safety: I feel that, in this space, I can ask questions without
fear of judgment. I can voice my perspective and know that
I will be validated for the fact that that is my truth. Others
may challenge my ideas, but that challenge is in the spirit of
greater shared understanding and growth.
Comfort: I feel that, in this space, my reality will be agreed
with, validated, and unchallenged. I don’t have to explain
myself to be understood, and I don’t have to justify my
perspective, as everyone shares it.
True dialogue happens in an environment where everyone is
safe but not always comfortable...
SO THAT THEY CAN LEARN AND GROW.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Culture [consists] primarily of the
symbolic, ideational, and intangible
aspects of human societies… It is the
values, symbols, interpretations, and
perspectives that distinguish one
people from another.
James A. Banks
What is Culture?
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Dimensions of Identity and Culture
This model of identifiers and culture was created by Karen Bradberry and Johnnie Foreman for NAIS Summer Diversity Institute,
adapted from Loden and Rosener’s Workforce America! (1991) and from Diverse Teams at Work, Gardenswartz & Rowe (SHRM 2003).
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Cultural Competency:
Many Models
Cultural competence is a set of
congruent behaviors, attitudes and
policies that come together in a
system, institution or individual and
enable that system, institution or
individual to work effectively in cross-
cultural situations.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Terry Cross
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
The Jones Model of Cultural Competence
Cultural Self-
Awareness
Cultural
Intelligence
Cross-Cultural
Effectiveness
Skills
Countering
Oppression
through
Inclusion
Moving Conversations
from Safe to Brave
 Controversy with Civility
 Own your own intent and impact
 Challenge by choice – with reflection
 Respect in all its multiplicity
 No personal attacks, but pointed
challenges are okay
 Be mindful of the true source of your
emotions
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Growth Orientation
William Taylor’s Reflective Competence Model
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Fears and Anxieties that Keep Us
from Having Conversations
 Offending
 Losing Face
 Tokenism
 Professional Risk
 Bursting the Bubble
 Rocking the Boat
 Conflict
 Lack of “Authority”
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Pitfalls and Obstacles that Keep Us
from Conversing Again
 Outbursts
 Silence
 Denial
 The Good Talk
 Teacher vs. Facilitator
 Personal Attacks
 The Quick Fix
 Leadership Oppression
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Open Acknowledgment
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Define the Opportunity
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Growth Mindset
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Everyone Has Growth Zones
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Comfort Zone:
Reliance on you
already know and do
well
Zone of Proximal
Development – The
Growth Zone:
Mindful and strategic
change toward the
next stage of growth
Panic Zone:
Unrealistic demands
on yourself and
others
Common Scenario:
Disengagement
• Separating Oneself Physically
• Not Speaking
• Side talking, Checking Phone
• Dismissive Body Language
• Turning In Body Language
• “Well, I identify as ____, and I don’t see how I
can relate to this topic…”
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Common Scenario:
Ranking Oppressions
• “In this world, it’s so much worse being a
woman than a Person of Color.”
• “We should talk about REAL problems like
immigration status. Ability doesn’t matter as
much.”
• “You come from so much wealth, what
problems could you possibly have?”
• “How could I possibly have privilege if I’m
Muslim?”
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Common Scenario:
Reverse Discrimination
• “There are so many ways women get special
treatment in the world – leadership programs for
women, STEM courses for girls, and men can’t
say anything these days without being accused of
sexism.”
• “Conversations about class privilege make me feel
guilty, so you’re making ME unsafe…”
• “It’s so much harder for me to get into college as a
White person. People of Color have it so much
easier – how is THAT fair?”
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Common Scenario:
Inclusion vs Assimilation
• “We're all just here to get our education, not to
have some kind of Kum-ba-yah love-in.”
• “How can we be inclusive to EVERYONE’S
culture? Don’t we have to have some
standard for how we act at school or work??
• “Well, we can talk about inclusion here, but
how are we going to be prepared for the REAL
world, where not everyone thinks like this?”
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Common Scenario: Colorblindness
• “How could I be prejudiced? I have lots of
friends who are…”
• “I treat everybody the same. I don't care if
they are brown, blue, yellow or purple.”
• “Doesn’t talking about how different we are
just separate us and make problems
worse?”
• “Well I’m just White, so I don’t think about
race all the time like People of Color…”
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Other Common Scenarios: Fear
• The role of and appropriate engagement
for people of privileged groups (i.e. White
people in conversations about race,
males in conversations about gender,
etc.) (fear of saying/doing the wrong
thing)
• The “provocateur” who likes to create
tension, drama, or conflict (fear thereof)
• Big eruption of emotions (fear thereof)
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Common Scenarios
• Disengagement
• Ranking of Oppressions
• Reverse Discrimination
• Assimilation vs Inclusion
• Colorblindness
• Fear
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Framing and Talking Points:
Different Occasions, Different Skills
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Develop Your Inner Credible Hulk
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Equality vs Equity
Everybody gets a shirt versus everybody
gets a shirt that fits.
Giving everybody some insulin in
equality. Giving only people who are
diabetic some insulin is equity.
What is “fair”?
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
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Institutional vs Individual
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Correlation vs Causation
Correlation: When income is averaged and compared, there
is a strong correlation between gender and income. This is
due to a myriad of historical, systemic, and economic factors that
impact men and women differently in the workplace.
Causation: When income is averaged and compared, there is a
strong correlation between gender and income. This must be
because women must not be as smart, hard-working, or
good with money as men.
Correlation: When folks are carrying umbrellas, they are
also wearing rain boots. This is because it’s raining.
Causation: Umbrellas make people wear rain boots.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Where We’re From vs Where We’re Going
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Where We Come From: In the past, LGBTQ people were
openly discriminated against. Many LGBTQ people were
killed, fired from jobs, kicked out of families, etc. We’ve come
so far. Now, we have openly gay celebrities, politicians, and
other public figures. Equal marriage rights is now law of the
land. Most schools and workplaces have LGBTQ non-
discrimination policies. Why are LGBTQ people are so angry?
Where We Are Going: We still have LGBTQ people who are
discriminated against. News stories abound of LGBTQ people
killed, fired from jobs, kicked out of families, and more. We
have such a long way to go. Having public role models on TV
doesn’t protect kids from bullying and harassment in the
hallways. Having nondiscrimination laws and policies don’t
mean LGBTQ people receive fair treatment in practice Why
are straight/cisgender people are so complacent?
Expert Opinion vs Personal Opinion
Expert Opinion: An astronomy professor, widely published in
academic journals and books, with a national reputation in her
field, states that, according to the most current science, there
are 8 planets in our solar system.
Personal Opinion: Another person asserts that there are 9
planets because that is what he learned in school and from
his parents, he had a map of the sky in his bedroom as a
child, and everyone he knows agrees with him.
Expert Opinion: Experts in multiple fields validate the
existence, reality, and impact of microaggressions, stereotype
threat, racial anxiety, implicit bias, etc.
Personal Opinion: I think people should stop being so
sensitive and get over it. We live in a post-racial society. I
don’t have a racist bone in my body.
Is everybody’s opinion equally valid?
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Privilege
“Privilege exists when one group has
something of value that is denied to others
simply because of the groups they belong
to, rather than because of anything they’ve
done or failed to do.”
[as described by Peggy McIntosh and quoted by Allan Johnson]
Privilege is SYSTEMIC. It drives the
systems that dominate our societies.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Two Types of Privilege
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Unearned Advantage
an unearned entitlement
(i.e. things of value that
all people should have)
that is restricted to
certain groups
Conferred Dominance
bestowed control;
granted authority;
awarded power or
domination- Giving one
group power over
another
Accumulated Advantages
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Situational Advantage
There are prime parking spots and seats
reserved for people with disabilities. People
with disabilities are often first to board
planes and other transportation vehicles.
These advantages are situational and do not
balance out systemic oppression.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Situational Advantage
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
An Ally Is…
“a person who is a member of the dominant or
majority group who works to end oppression in
his or her personal and professional life
through support of, and as an advocate with
and for, the oppressed population”
Washington and Evans, Becoming an Ally
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
An Ally Is…
“Someone who doesn’t have to stand up for
someone else, who might even lose something
if they do, but they do it anyway because they
know it’s the right thing to do”
6th Grade Student
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Savior Complex
 Centers on the “Helper” and not the “Helped”
 Centers on making the “Helper” feel good about
themselves
 Assumes that the “Helper” knows what is best for the
“Helped,” often without even hearing from the direct
experiences of the “Helped”
 Doesn’t acknowledge deep injustices, where the “Helper”
is privileged and the “Helped” are oppressed
 Doesn’t do anything to give power to the “Helped”
 Does not create sustainable change – once the “Helper”
stops doing what they are doing, so does the positive
change
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Allyship and Solidarity
 Centers on the “Helped” and not the “Helper”
 Centers on the “Helper” fulfilling a societal responsibility
as the privileged
 Assumes that the “Helped” knows what is best for the
“Helped,” and that the job of the “Helper” is to assist the
“Helped” in meeting those needs
 Acknowledges deep societal injustices, where the
“Helper” and “Helped” are equal in dignity and unequal in
access through no fault or earning of each party
 Results in the “Helped” becoming more powerful
 Creates sustainable change where the “Helper” becomes
obsolete because the positive change continues with or
without them
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Developing into an Ally
Karen Bradberry, PhD
Active Passive Passive Active
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Inclusive Communities
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Presenter Information
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
6th Faculty and
Professional Outreach
Seattle Girls’ School
2706 S Jackson Street
Seattle WA 98144
(206) 805-6562
rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org
http://tiny.cc/rosettalee
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Resources
• Anti-Defamation League
• Brené Brown
• Cross Cultural Connections
(www.CulturesConnecting.com)
• National Coalition Building Institute
• The People’s Institute
• Stirfry Seminars
• Teaching Tolerance
• The Thiagi Group
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Horace Mann Facilitating Courageous Conversations

  • 1. Horace Mann School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee Seattle Girls’ School Facilitating Courageous Conversations Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 2. About Seattle Girls’ School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 3. Agenda  Safe Versus Brave  Facilitation What If’s  Questions and Answers Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 4. Engaging in Courageous Conversations Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 5. Safety Versus Comfort Safety: I feel that, in this space, I can ask questions without fear of judgment. I can voice my perspective and know that I will be validated for the fact that that is my truth. Others may challenge my ideas, but that challenge is in the spirit of greater shared understanding and growth. Comfort: I feel that, in this space, my reality will be agreed with, validated, and unchallenged. I don’t have to explain myself to be understood, and I don’t have to justify my perspective, as everyone shares it. True dialogue happens in an environment where everyone is safe but not always comfortable... SO THAT THEY CAN LEARN AND GROW. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 6. Culture [consists] primarily of the symbolic, ideational, and intangible aspects of human societies… It is the values, symbols, interpretations, and perspectives that distinguish one people from another. James A. Banks What is Culture? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 7. Dimensions of Identity and Culture This model of identifiers and culture was created by Karen Bradberry and Johnnie Foreman for NAIS Summer Diversity Institute, adapted from Loden and Rosener’s Workforce America! (1991) and from Diverse Teams at Work, Gardenswartz & Rowe (SHRM 2003). Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 8. Cultural Competency: Many Models Cultural competence is a set of congruent behaviors, attitudes and policies that come together in a system, institution or individual and enable that system, institution or individual to work effectively in cross- cultural situations. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Terry Cross
  • 9. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) The Jones Model of Cultural Competence Cultural Self- Awareness Cultural Intelligence Cross-Cultural Effectiveness Skills Countering Oppression through Inclusion
  • 10. Moving Conversations from Safe to Brave  Controversy with Civility  Own your own intent and impact  Challenge by choice – with reflection  Respect in all its multiplicity  No personal attacks, but pointed challenges are okay  Be mindful of the true source of your emotions Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 11. Growth Orientation William Taylor’s Reflective Competence Model Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 12. Fears and Anxieties that Keep Us from Having Conversations  Offending  Losing Face  Tokenism  Professional Risk  Bursting the Bubble  Rocking the Boat  Conflict  Lack of “Authority” Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 13. Pitfalls and Obstacles that Keep Us from Conversing Again  Outbursts  Silence  Denial  The Good Talk  Teacher vs. Facilitator  Personal Attacks  The Quick Fix  Leadership Oppression Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 14. Open Acknowledgment Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 15. Define the Opportunity Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 16. Growth Mindset Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 17. Everyone Has Growth Zones Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Comfort Zone: Reliance on you already know and do well Zone of Proximal Development – The Growth Zone: Mindful and strategic change toward the next stage of growth Panic Zone: Unrealistic demands on yourself and others
  • 18. Common Scenario: Disengagement • Separating Oneself Physically • Not Speaking • Side talking, Checking Phone • Dismissive Body Language • Turning In Body Language • “Well, I identify as ____, and I don’t see how I can relate to this topic…” Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 19. Common Scenario: Ranking Oppressions • “In this world, it’s so much worse being a woman than a Person of Color.” • “We should talk about REAL problems like immigration status. Ability doesn’t matter as much.” • “You come from so much wealth, what problems could you possibly have?” • “How could I possibly have privilege if I’m Muslim?” Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 20. Common Scenario: Reverse Discrimination • “There are so many ways women get special treatment in the world – leadership programs for women, STEM courses for girls, and men can’t say anything these days without being accused of sexism.” • “Conversations about class privilege make me feel guilty, so you’re making ME unsafe…” • “It’s so much harder for me to get into college as a White person. People of Color have it so much easier – how is THAT fair?” Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 21. Common Scenario: Inclusion vs Assimilation • “We're all just here to get our education, not to have some kind of Kum-ba-yah love-in.” • “How can we be inclusive to EVERYONE’S culture? Don’t we have to have some standard for how we act at school or work?? • “Well, we can talk about inclusion here, but how are we going to be prepared for the REAL world, where not everyone thinks like this?” Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 22. Common Scenario: Colorblindness • “How could I be prejudiced? I have lots of friends who are…” • “I treat everybody the same. I don't care if they are brown, blue, yellow or purple.” • “Doesn’t talking about how different we are just separate us and make problems worse?” • “Well I’m just White, so I don’t think about race all the time like People of Color…” Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 23. Other Common Scenarios: Fear • The role of and appropriate engagement for people of privileged groups (i.e. White people in conversations about race, males in conversations about gender, etc.) (fear of saying/doing the wrong thing) • The “provocateur” who likes to create tension, drama, or conflict (fear thereof) • Big eruption of emotions (fear thereof) Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 24. Common Scenarios • Disengagement • Ranking of Oppressions • Reverse Discrimination • Assimilation vs Inclusion • Colorblindness • Fear Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 25. Framing and Talking Points: Different Occasions, Different Skills Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 26. Develop Your Inner Credible Hulk Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 27. Equality vs Equity Everybody gets a shirt versus everybody gets a shirt that fits. Giving everybody some insulin in equality. Giving only people who are diabetic some insulin is equity. What is “fair”? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 28. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 29. Institutional vs Individual Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 30. Correlation vs Causation Correlation: When income is averaged and compared, there is a strong correlation between gender and income. This is due to a myriad of historical, systemic, and economic factors that impact men and women differently in the workplace. Causation: When income is averaged and compared, there is a strong correlation between gender and income. This must be because women must not be as smart, hard-working, or good with money as men. Correlation: When folks are carrying umbrellas, they are also wearing rain boots. This is because it’s raining. Causation: Umbrellas make people wear rain boots. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 31. Where We’re From vs Where We’re Going Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Where We Come From: In the past, LGBTQ people were openly discriminated against. Many LGBTQ people were killed, fired from jobs, kicked out of families, etc. We’ve come so far. Now, we have openly gay celebrities, politicians, and other public figures. Equal marriage rights is now law of the land. Most schools and workplaces have LGBTQ non- discrimination policies. Why are LGBTQ people are so angry? Where We Are Going: We still have LGBTQ people who are discriminated against. News stories abound of LGBTQ people killed, fired from jobs, kicked out of families, and more. We have such a long way to go. Having public role models on TV doesn’t protect kids from bullying and harassment in the hallways. Having nondiscrimination laws and policies don’t mean LGBTQ people receive fair treatment in practice Why are straight/cisgender people are so complacent?
  • 32. Expert Opinion vs Personal Opinion Expert Opinion: An astronomy professor, widely published in academic journals and books, with a national reputation in her field, states that, according to the most current science, there are 8 planets in our solar system. Personal Opinion: Another person asserts that there are 9 planets because that is what he learned in school and from his parents, he had a map of the sky in his bedroom as a child, and everyone he knows agrees with him. Expert Opinion: Experts in multiple fields validate the existence, reality, and impact of microaggressions, stereotype threat, racial anxiety, implicit bias, etc. Personal Opinion: I think people should stop being so sensitive and get over it. We live in a post-racial society. I don’t have a racist bone in my body. Is everybody’s opinion equally valid? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 33. Privilege “Privilege exists when one group has something of value that is denied to others simply because of the groups they belong to, rather than because of anything they’ve done or failed to do.” [as described by Peggy McIntosh and quoted by Allan Johnson] Privilege is SYSTEMIC. It drives the systems that dominate our societies. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 34. Two Types of Privilege Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Unearned Advantage an unearned entitlement (i.e. things of value that all people should have) that is restricted to certain groups Conferred Dominance bestowed control; granted authority; awarded power or domination- Giving one group power over another
  • 35. Accumulated Advantages Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 36. Situational Advantage There are prime parking spots and seats reserved for people with disabilities. People with disabilities are often first to board planes and other transportation vehicles. These advantages are situational and do not balance out systemic oppression. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 37. Situational Advantage Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 38. An Ally Is… “a person who is a member of the dominant or majority group who works to end oppression in his or her personal and professional life through support of, and as an advocate with and for, the oppressed population” Washington and Evans, Becoming an Ally Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 39. An Ally Is… “Someone who doesn’t have to stand up for someone else, who might even lose something if they do, but they do it anyway because they know it’s the right thing to do” 6th Grade Student Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 40. Savior Complex  Centers on the “Helper” and not the “Helped”  Centers on making the “Helper” feel good about themselves  Assumes that the “Helper” knows what is best for the “Helped,” often without even hearing from the direct experiences of the “Helped”  Doesn’t acknowledge deep injustices, where the “Helper” is privileged and the “Helped” are oppressed  Doesn’t do anything to give power to the “Helped”  Does not create sustainable change – once the “Helper” stops doing what they are doing, so does the positive change Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 41. Allyship and Solidarity  Centers on the “Helped” and not the “Helper”  Centers on the “Helper” fulfilling a societal responsibility as the privileged  Assumes that the “Helped” knows what is best for the “Helped,” and that the job of the “Helper” is to assist the “Helped” in meeting those needs  Acknowledges deep societal injustices, where the “Helper” and “Helped” are equal in dignity and unequal in access through no fault or earning of each party  Results in the “Helped” becoming more powerful  Creates sustainable change where the “Helper” becomes obsolete because the positive change continues with or without them Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 42. Developing into an Ally Karen Bradberry, PhD Active Passive Passive Active Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 43. Inclusive Communities Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 44. Presenter Information Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee 6th Faculty and Professional Outreach Seattle Girls’ School 2706 S Jackson Street Seattle WA 98144 (206) 805-6562 rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org http://tiny.cc/rosettalee Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 45. Resources • Anti-Defamation League • Brené Brown • Cross Cultural Connections (www.CulturesConnecting.com) • National Coalition Building Institute • The People’s Institute • Stirfry Seminars • Teaching Tolerance • The Thiagi Group Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)