This document provides advice on figuring out life by first reflecting on one's goals and sense of purpose. It suggests considering what type of life one wants - pleasant, good, or meaningful - and which values most drive them, such as community, discovery, power, justice, environmentalism, mastery, or happiness. It then recommends developing an identity around one's drives and goals, building a system for improvement, trying reversible experiments, developing grit through experimentation, and being open to questions from others. The overall message is to first look inside oneself to understand one's values and purpose before taking steps to work towards fulfilling goals.