Random Act of Kindness Benefits More People Than You Know! Learn how it can help boost health, happiness, socialization, "helper's high", decrease depression and isolation, etc. It's a gift that keeps on giving. Debbie Lyn Toomey, RN, Health & Happiness Specialist, CIPP, Positive Psychology Coach, Wellness Coach, & Speaker.
2. Discuss what Positive Psychology is.
List the three people affected by Random Act
of Kindness (RAK)
Explain how RAK helps decrease Depression
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3. Martin Seligman, PhD
Father of Positive
Psychology
The “Science of
Happiness”
1998
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4. To nurture the gifted
and talented
To learn from the
gifted and talented
To make normal life
more fulfilling
To use what’s already
working
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5. 1. Ave. of 60,000
thoughts/day
2. Most of those
thoughts are from the
day before.
3. 80% of those
thoughts were
negative.
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6. States that stress is the basic cause of more
that 60% of all health related illness and
diseases.
Stress is the #1 proxy killer disease of today-
“Silent killer”
(American Medical Association, 2014)
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7. Rick Hanson states in his book:
Hardwiring Happiness: The New Brain Science of Contentment, Calm, and Confid
that, “you can beat the brain’s
negativity bias, which is like
Velcro for negative experiences
but Teflon for positive ones.
This bias evolved to help ancient
animals survive, but today it
makes us feel needlessly
frazzled, worried, irritated,
lonely, inadequate, and blue.”
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9. … the state or quality of
being kind, a kind act,
or behavior. A friendly
feeling; liking.
(Dictionary.com)
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11. 1. The Doer of Deed
2. The Receiver of the Deed
3. The Observer of the RAK
(Steve Taylor, Ph.D)
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12. Increased immune
system
Improved Cognitive
Performance
Increase in energy
Lower heart rate
Balanced cortisol levels
which result in less
internal stress
More likely to live a
longer and more
satisfied life
Lower blood pressure;
diminished pain
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13. 1. Helps people who are depressed.
2. Reverse the feelings of depression
3. Supplies social contact
4. Helps stop the self-critical mind by
focusing in on another person
5. Decrease feelings of hostility and isolation
6. Increases sense of self-worth, happiness,
and optimism
7. Decreases length of time suffering
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14. Allan Luks former Executive Director of the
Institute of Advancement of Health &
Executive Director of Big Brother Big Sister
NY City.
Study of over 3,000 volunteers. Conclusion:
“Helping contributes to the maintenence of
good health, and it can diminish the effect of
the diseases and disorders both serious and
minor, physiological and physical.”
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15. Luks states that because the volunteers felt a
rush of euphoria, followed by a longer feeling
of calm, after performing a kind act. He calls
this “Helper’s High”
More than 90% of the volunteers states that
volunteering produced feelings which are a
powerful antidote to stress.
volunteering -> released endorphins -> sharp
reduction of stress
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Start with a SMILE
1. Whether real or forced
smile, it reduces stress
due to release of
endorphins
2. Easier to smile than
frown.
3. Most recognized facial
expression, 300 feet
away.
20. 1. Set aside approximately 20 minutes daily
2. Close your eyes
3. Take deep breaths
4. Focus on the people that you care about
5. Generate love towards them
6. Increase that feeling state of love and
include yourself in that feeling state
7. Add more people that you want to add
8. Repeat if you can for 21 – 30 days.
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21. Positive Psychology is Science of Happiness.
The three people affected by RAK: Doer,
Receiver, & Witness.
RAK helps with Depression helps the person
think of another person besides self. Increase
chance of socialization and making another
person feel better.
“Do Kind Deeds.”
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23. All About Love: All
Day Event in Boston
Saturday, June 7 2014
“Being
A.W.E.S.O.M.E.”
online 2 month
program.
Yoga Hub TV shows
(Trinity of Life and
Empowerment Through
Positive Psychology)
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