SlideShare ist ein Scribd-Unternehmen logo
1 von 34
Downloaden Sie, um offline zu lesen
5
Things I Thought I Knew
at 22 That Turned Out to Be
@annhandley
TOTALLYTOTALLY
WRONGWRONG
I like to think I was thoughtful and
professional, eager but measured,
when I was 22.
The truth is that I was impatient
and usually felt inadequate.
Uncomfortable.
Skeptical. Clueless.
Here are five things I thought I knew then
that turned out to be totally wrong.
1
At some point,
you’ll be
competent.
1
At some point,
you’ll be
competent.
Nope.
"To stand still is to
fall behind."
—Mark Twain
In truth...
In truth...
The more you master, the more
you realize you don’t know.
The more you understand
challenges, the more you challenge
yourself to learn more.
The more you hone your skills, the
sharper still you want to make them.
2
At some point,
you’ll be rewarded
for your hard work.
2
At some point,
you’ll be rewarded
for your hard work.
Nope.
Recognition is like viral
marketing: a happy
accident, not a goal.
In truth...
Not only is it unlikely that anyone else will
reward you, but the very notion of
anticipating some kind of recognition is
both folly and a little childish.
In truth...
The only validation that ultimately
means anything is the satisfaction of
knowing that you did the best you could
on something that matters.
3
At some point, you
won’t have to work
so hard.
3
At some point, you
won’t have to work
so hard.
Nope.
"You learn the value of hard
work by working hard."
—Margaret Mead
In truth...
If you aren’t working hard, you
probably don’t care a whole lot
about what you’re working on.
In truth...
You never stop giving it your all.
4
At some point,
you’ll realize your
fate.
4
At some point,
you’ll realize your
fate.
Nope.
"Destiny is for losers. It’s just
a stupid excuse to wait for
things to happen instead of
making them happen."
—Blair Waldorf (Gossip Girl)
"Destiny is for losers. It’s just
a stupid excuse to wait for
things to happen instead of
making them happen."
—Blair Waldorf (Gossip Girl)That's it.
That's the
truth.
5
At some point,
you’ll always be
right.
5
At some point,
you’ll always be
right.
Nope.
But guess what?
But guess what?
Being wrong
—at least once in a while—
is surprisingly awesome.
Sign up to hear from
Ann regularly (-ish) at
AnnHandley.com
Sign up to hear from
Ann regularly (-ish) at
AnnHandley.com
Click tocheck outher site!

Weitere ähnliche Inhalte

Andere mochten auch

7 Content Marketing Trends That Matter in 2017
7 Content Marketing Trends That Matter in 20177 Content Marketing Trends That Matter in 2017
7 Content Marketing Trends That Matter in 2017Jay Baer
 
7 Content Insights - Epic Content Marketing - Integrated Marketing Forum 2013
7 Content Insights - Epic Content Marketing - Integrated Marketing Forum 20137 Content Insights - Epic Content Marketing - Integrated Marketing Forum 2013
7 Content Insights - Epic Content Marketing - Integrated Marketing Forum 2013Joe Pulizzi
 
The Scoop on Content
The Scoop on ContentThe Scoop on Content
The Scoop on ContentAnn Handley
 
Why Content Marketing Fails
Why Content Marketing FailsWhy Content Marketing Fails
Why Content Marketing FailsRand Fishkin
 
Crap. The Content Marketing Deluge.
Crap. The Content Marketing Deluge.Crap. The Content Marketing Deluge.
Crap. The Content Marketing Deluge.Velocity Partners
 
The Search for Meaning in B2B Marketing
The Search for Meaning in B2B MarketingThe Search for Meaning in B2B Marketing
The Search for Meaning in B2B MarketingVelocity Partners
 
Frank Underwood's Lessons For Digital Marketers
Frank Underwood's Lessons For Digital MarketersFrank Underwood's Lessons For Digital Marketers
Frank Underwood's Lessons For Digital MarketersMonetate
 
B2B Influencer Marketing Activation - Lee Odden
B2B Influencer Marketing Activation - Lee OddenB2B Influencer Marketing Activation - Lee Odden
B2B Influencer Marketing Activation - Lee OddenTopRank Marketing Agency
 
Influencers - Don't Find 'em. Make 'em
Influencers - Don't Find 'em. Make 'emInfluencers - Don't Find 'em. Make 'em
Influencers - Don't Find 'em. Make 'emIan Lurie
 
Trends Changing Digital Marketing (Updated Deck)
Trends Changing Digital Marketing (Updated Deck)Trends Changing Digital Marketing (Updated Deck)
Trends Changing Digital Marketing (Updated Deck)Kyle Lacy
 
Towards Future Proof Customer Relations
Towards Future Proof Customer RelationsTowards Future Proof Customer Relations
Towards Future Proof Customer RelationsSteven Van Belleghem
 
Creating Winning Social Media Strategies in 8 Steps
Creating Winning Social Media Strategies in 8 StepsCreating Winning Social Media Strategies in 8 Steps
Creating Winning Social Media Strategies in 8 StepsJay Baer
 
20 Amazing Examples of Content-First Startups (the Content Inc. Model)
20 Amazing Examples of Content-First Startups (the Content Inc. Model)20 Amazing Examples of Content-First Startups (the Content Inc. Model)
20 Amazing Examples of Content-First Startups (the Content Inc. Model)Joe Pulizzi
 
2016 A-Z Culture Glossary
2016 A-Z Culture Glossary2016 A-Z Culture Glossary
2016 A-Z Culture Glossarysparks & honey
 
5 Lessons For Entrepreneurs
5 Lessons For Entrepreneurs5 Lessons For Entrepreneurs
5 Lessons For EntrepreneursIan Lurie
 

Andere mochten auch (16)

7 Content Marketing Trends That Matter in 2017
7 Content Marketing Trends That Matter in 20177 Content Marketing Trends That Matter in 2017
7 Content Marketing Trends That Matter in 2017
 
7 Content Insights - Epic Content Marketing - Integrated Marketing Forum 2013
7 Content Insights - Epic Content Marketing - Integrated Marketing Forum 20137 Content Insights - Epic Content Marketing - Integrated Marketing Forum 2013
7 Content Insights - Epic Content Marketing - Integrated Marketing Forum 2013
 
The Scoop on Content
The Scoop on ContentThe Scoop on Content
The Scoop on Content
 
Why Content Marketing Fails
Why Content Marketing FailsWhy Content Marketing Fails
Why Content Marketing Fails
 
Crap. The Content Marketing Deluge.
Crap. The Content Marketing Deluge.Crap. The Content Marketing Deluge.
Crap. The Content Marketing Deluge.
 
The Search for Meaning in B2B Marketing
The Search for Meaning in B2B MarketingThe Search for Meaning in B2B Marketing
The Search for Meaning in B2B Marketing
 
Frank Underwood's Lessons For Digital Marketers
Frank Underwood's Lessons For Digital MarketersFrank Underwood's Lessons For Digital Marketers
Frank Underwood's Lessons For Digital Marketers
 
B2B Influencer Marketing Activation - Lee Odden
B2B Influencer Marketing Activation - Lee OddenB2B Influencer Marketing Activation - Lee Odden
B2B Influencer Marketing Activation - Lee Odden
 
Influencers - Don't Find 'em. Make 'em
Influencers - Don't Find 'em. Make 'emInfluencers - Don't Find 'em. Make 'em
Influencers - Don't Find 'em. Make 'em
 
Trends Changing Digital Marketing (Updated Deck)
Trends Changing Digital Marketing (Updated Deck)Trends Changing Digital Marketing (Updated Deck)
Trends Changing Digital Marketing (Updated Deck)
 
Towards Future Proof Customer Relations
Towards Future Proof Customer RelationsTowards Future Proof Customer Relations
Towards Future Proof Customer Relations
 
Creating Winning Social Media Strategies in 8 Steps
Creating Winning Social Media Strategies in 8 StepsCreating Winning Social Media Strategies in 8 Steps
Creating Winning Social Media Strategies in 8 Steps
 
20 Amazing Examples of Content-First Startups (the Content Inc. Model)
20 Amazing Examples of Content-First Startups (the Content Inc. Model)20 Amazing Examples of Content-First Startups (the Content Inc. Model)
20 Amazing Examples of Content-First Startups (the Content Inc. Model)
 
2016 A-Z Culture Glossary
2016 A-Z Culture Glossary2016 A-Z Culture Glossary
2016 A-Z Culture Glossary
 
5 Lessons For Entrepreneurs
5 Lessons For Entrepreneurs5 Lessons For Entrepreneurs
5 Lessons For Entrepreneurs
 
Social Media Survival Guide
Social Media Survival GuideSocial Media Survival Guide
Social Media Survival Guide
 

Mehr von Ann Handley

Slay the Ignosaurus; Change Your Life
Slay the Ignosaurus; Change Your LifeSlay the Ignosaurus; Change Your Life
Slay the Ignosaurus; Change Your LifeAnn Handley
 
A Writing GPS: The Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Your Next Piece of Content
A Writing GPS: The Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Your Next Piece of ContentA Writing GPS: The Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Your Next Piece of Content
A Writing GPS: The Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Your Next Piece of ContentAnn Handley
 
#FollowTheFear: Do Things That Scare You
#FollowTheFear: Do Things That Scare You#FollowTheFear: Do Things That Scare You
#FollowTheFear: Do Things That Scare YouAnn Handley
 
A Survival Guide for Too Much Business Travel
A Survival Guide for Too Much Business TravelA Survival Guide for Too Much Business Travel
A Survival Guide for Too Much Business TravelAnn Handley
 
What You Need to Know to Start a Business Blog
What You Need to Know to Start a Business BlogWhat You Need to Know to Start a Business Blog
What You Need to Know to Start a Business BlogAnn Handley
 
Three social media f words and five companies that use them
Three social media f words and five companies that use themThree social media f words and five companies that use them
Three social media f words and five companies that use themAnn Handley
 
Overheard at the MarketingProfs B2B Forum
Overheard at the MarketingProfs B2B ForumOverheard at the MarketingProfs B2B Forum
Overheard at the MarketingProfs B2B ForumAnn Handley
 

Mehr von Ann Handley (7)

Slay the Ignosaurus; Change Your Life
Slay the Ignosaurus; Change Your LifeSlay the Ignosaurus; Change Your Life
Slay the Ignosaurus; Change Your Life
 
A Writing GPS: The Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Your Next Piece of Content
A Writing GPS: The Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Your Next Piece of ContentA Writing GPS: The Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Your Next Piece of Content
A Writing GPS: The Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Your Next Piece of Content
 
#FollowTheFear: Do Things That Scare You
#FollowTheFear: Do Things That Scare You#FollowTheFear: Do Things That Scare You
#FollowTheFear: Do Things That Scare You
 
A Survival Guide for Too Much Business Travel
A Survival Guide for Too Much Business TravelA Survival Guide for Too Much Business Travel
A Survival Guide for Too Much Business Travel
 
What You Need to Know to Start a Business Blog
What You Need to Know to Start a Business BlogWhat You Need to Know to Start a Business Blog
What You Need to Know to Start a Business Blog
 
Three social media f words and five companies that use them
Three social media f words and five companies that use themThree social media f words and five companies that use them
Three social media f words and five companies that use them
 
Overheard at the MarketingProfs B2B Forum
Overheard at the MarketingProfs B2B ForumOverheard at the MarketingProfs B2B Forum
Overheard at the MarketingProfs B2B Forum
 

Kürzlich hochgeladen

What is the career path of a VFX artist?
What is the career path of a VFX artist?What is the career path of a VFX artist?
What is the career path of a VFX artist?santoshjadhav126
 
4. Biomechanical Preparation INTRO AND TECHNIQUES
4. Biomechanical Preparation INTRO AND TECHNIQUES4. Biomechanical Preparation INTRO AND TECHNIQUES
4. Biomechanical Preparation INTRO AND TECHNIQUESaishwaryakhare5
 
Nathan_Baughman_Resume_copywriter_and_editor
Nathan_Baughman_Resume_copywriter_and_editorNathan_Baughman_Resume_copywriter_and_editor
Nathan_Baughman_Resume_copywriter_and_editorNathanBaughman3
 
How to make career in advance 3d animation
How to make career in advance 3d animationHow to make career in advance 3d animation
How to make career in advance 3d animationsantoshjadhav126
 
加拿大MUN学位证,纽芬兰纪念大学毕业证书1:1制作
加拿大MUN学位证,纽芬兰纪念大学毕业证书1:1制作加拿大MUN学位证,纽芬兰纪念大学毕业证书1:1制作
加拿大MUN学位证,纽芬兰纪念大学毕业证书1:1制作rpb5qxou
 
The Next Things To Immediately Do About Mating Press
The Next Things To Immediately Do About Mating PressThe Next Things To Immediately Do About Mating Press
The Next Things To Immediately Do About Mating Pressmatingpress170
 
Crack JAG. Guidance program for entry to JAG Dept. & SSB interview
Crack JAG. Guidance program for entry to JAG Dept. & SSB interviewCrack JAG. Guidance program for entry to JAG Dept. & SSB interview
Crack JAG. Guidance program for entry to JAG Dept. & SSB interviewNilendra Kumar
 
Design, Desire and Demand Presentation.pptx
Design, Desire and Demand Presentation.pptxDesign, Desire and Demand Presentation.pptx
Design, Desire and Demand Presentation.pptxaaronbasko1
 
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdfAbanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdfAbanoubGhobrial1
 
Spanish Classes Online In India With Tutor At Affordable Price
Spanish Classes Online In India With Tutor At Affordable PriceSpanish Classes Online In India With Tutor At Affordable Price
Spanish Classes Online In India With Tutor At Affordable PriceFluent Fast Academy
 
Training for Deaconess, biblical qualifications.ppt
Training for Deaconess, biblical qualifications.pptTraining for Deaconess, biblical qualifications.ppt
Training for Deaconess, biblical qualifications.pptVidalMendoza5
 
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdfAbanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdfAbanoubGhobrial1
 
Complete Benefits of career counseling in India
Complete Benefits of career counseling in IndiaComplete Benefits of career counseling in India
Complete Benefits of career counseling in IndiaMere Mentor
 
401799841-Increasing-Crimes-and-Suicides-Among-Youth.pptx
401799841-Increasing-Crimes-and-Suicides-Among-Youth.pptx401799841-Increasing-Crimes-and-Suicides-Among-Youth.pptx
401799841-Increasing-Crimes-and-Suicides-Among-Youth.pptxwaghmare9860lavin
 
Jumark Morit Diezmo- Career portfolio- BPED 3A
Jumark Morit Diezmo- Career portfolio- BPED 3AJumark Morit Diezmo- Career portfolio- BPED 3A
Jumark Morit Diezmo- Career portfolio- BPED 3Ajumarkdiezmo1
 
How to prepare yourself for a job interview.pptx
How to prepare yourself for a job interview.pptxHow to prepare yourself for a job interview.pptx
How to prepare yourself for a job interview.pptxJohnreyFalsarioBasid
 
Back on Track: Navigating the Return to Work after Parental Leave
Back on Track: Navigating the Return to Work after Parental LeaveBack on Track: Navigating the Return to Work after Parental Leave
Back on Track: Navigating the Return to Work after Parental LeaveMarharyta Nedzelska
 
Chapter 4 - Promoting Inclusive Culture.ppt
Chapter 4 - Promoting   Inclusive Culture.pptChapter 4 - Promoting   Inclusive Culture.ppt
Chapter 4 - Promoting Inclusive Culture.pptmoytopo
 
LinkedIn for Your Job Search in April 2024
LinkedIn for Your Job Search in April 2024LinkedIn for Your Job Search in April 2024
LinkedIn for Your Job Search in April 2024Bruce Bennett
 
How To Land Your Next PM Dream Job - PMISSC Meeting - April 2024
How To Land Your Next PM Dream Job - PMISSC Meeting - April 2024How To Land Your Next PM Dream Job - PMISSC Meeting - April 2024
How To Land Your Next PM Dream Job - PMISSC Meeting - April 2024Hector Del Castillo, CPM, CPMM
 

Kürzlich hochgeladen (20)

What is the career path of a VFX artist?
What is the career path of a VFX artist?What is the career path of a VFX artist?
What is the career path of a VFX artist?
 
4. Biomechanical Preparation INTRO AND TECHNIQUES
4. Biomechanical Preparation INTRO AND TECHNIQUES4. Biomechanical Preparation INTRO AND TECHNIQUES
4. Biomechanical Preparation INTRO AND TECHNIQUES
 
Nathan_Baughman_Resume_copywriter_and_editor
Nathan_Baughman_Resume_copywriter_and_editorNathan_Baughman_Resume_copywriter_and_editor
Nathan_Baughman_Resume_copywriter_and_editor
 
How to make career in advance 3d animation
How to make career in advance 3d animationHow to make career in advance 3d animation
How to make career in advance 3d animation
 
加拿大MUN学位证,纽芬兰纪念大学毕业证书1:1制作
加拿大MUN学位证,纽芬兰纪念大学毕业证书1:1制作加拿大MUN学位证,纽芬兰纪念大学毕业证书1:1制作
加拿大MUN学位证,纽芬兰纪念大学毕业证书1:1制作
 
The Next Things To Immediately Do About Mating Press
The Next Things To Immediately Do About Mating PressThe Next Things To Immediately Do About Mating Press
The Next Things To Immediately Do About Mating Press
 
Crack JAG. Guidance program for entry to JAG Dept. & SSB interview
Crack JAG. Guidance program for entry to JAG Dept. & SSB interviewCrack JAG. Guidance program for entry to JAG Dept. & SSB interview
Crack JAG. Guidance program for entry to JAG Dept. & SSB interview
 
Design, Desire and Demand Presentation.pptx
Design, Desire and Demand Presentation.pptxDesign, Desire and Demand Presentation.pptx
Design, Desire and Demand Presentation.pptx
 
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdfAbanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
 
Spanish Classes Online In India With Tutor At Affordable Price
Spanish Classes Online In India With Tutor At Affordable PriceSpanish Classes Online In India With Tutor At Affordable Price
Spanish Classes Online In India With Tutor At Affordable Price
 
Training for Deaconess, biblical qualifications.ppt
Training for Deaconess, biblical qualifications.pptTraining for Deaconess, biblical qualifications.ppt
Training for Deaconess, biblical qualifications.ppt
 
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdfAbanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
Abanoub Ghobrial, Planning Team Leader.pdf
 
Complete Benefits of career counseling in India
Complete Benefits of career counseling in IndiaComplete Benefits of career counseling in India
Complete Benefits of career counseling in India
 
401799841-Increasing-Crimes-and-Suicides-Among-Youth.pptx
401799841-Increasing-Crimes-and-Suicides-Among-Youth.pptx401799841-Increasing-Crimes-and-Suicides-Among-Youth.pptx
401799841-Increasing-Crimes-and-Suicides-Among-Youth.pptx
 
Jumark Morit Diezmo- Career portfolio- BPED 3A
Jumark Morit Diezmo- Career portfolio- BPED 3AJumark Morit Diezmo- Career portfolio- BPED 3A
Jumark Morit Diezmo- Career portfolio- BPED 3A
 
How to prepare yourself for a job interview.pptx
How to prepare yourself for a job interview.pptxHow to prepare yourself for a job interview.pptx
How to prepare yourself for a job interview.pptx
 
Back on Track: Navigating the Return to Work after Parental Leave
Back on Track: Navigating the Return to Work after Parental LeaveBack on Track: Navigating the Return to Work after Parental Leave
Back on Track: Navigating the Return to Work after Parental Leave
 
Chapter 4 - Promoting Inclusive Culture.ppt
Chapter 4 - Promoting   Inclusive Culture.pptChapter 4 - Promoting   Inclusive Culture.ppt
Chapter 4 - Promoting Inclusive Culture.ppt
 
LinkedIn for Your Job Search in April 2024
LinkedIn for Your Job Search in April 2024LinkedIn for Your Job Search in April 2024
LinkedIn for Your Job Search in April 2024
 
How To Land Your Next PM Dream Job - PMISSC Meeting - April 2024
How To Land Your Next PM Dream Job - PMISSC Meeting - April 2024How To Land Your Next PM Dream Job - PMISSC Meeting - April 2024
How To Land Your Next PM Dream Job - PMISSC Meeting - April 2024
 

5 Things I Thought I Knew at 22 That Turned Out to Be Totally Wrong